The man who received death threats for taking his wife’s surname

thefingerfuckingfemalefury:

between-stars-and-waves:

somefuckinmanswers:

“People like to pretend that the decision to change your name after marriage is a purely personal choice — no more controversial than, say, the decision to get married in Summer or Spring or in a church or a garden.

But this is only the case if couples make the conventional “choice” and the woman changes her name.

Even if women make the “free” and “personal” choice not to take their husband’s name after marriage, research tells us that this decision affects the couple’s perceived status, with people assuming that the man is weak and the woman is a ball-breaker.“

Man announces he’s changed his name to his wife’s after marriage and received death wishes and ridicule. But sure, it’s all just about choice.”

This

Right Wingers: LOL all these left wing snowflakes get Offended By Anything! We’re nothing like that! We are Manly Men! We watch South Park and Family Guy we are So Edgy and Nothing Offends Us u triggered bro no safe spaces LOL

Some Guy Somewhere: I’m taking my wifes surname

Right Wingers: (Are so enraged and horrified by a tiny utterly unimportant and meaningless thing that some guy none of them know did that they send someone they’ve never once even spoken to death threats)

The man who received death threats for taking his wife’s surname

today in “things i’m disproportionately emotional about”:

cricketcat9:

kaijutegu:

hungry-hungry-hobbit:

systlin:

pipcomix:

the-thrill-be-damned:

it’s facial reconstructions of prehistoric humans!!

like, look at this part-homo sapiens, part-neandertal man from well over 30,000 years ago:

doesn’t he just look like a dude you’d wanna hang out with? like he probably washes dishes in the kitchen with you, and has excellent weed

what a charming fellow. what stories he probably has to tell. i’d definitely go shoot the shit with him on Contemplation Rock after i’d finished my day’s work carving a bone flute for the autumn hunting ceremony, or whatever

people have been people ever since people first became people, i tell you what

they all had lives and histories and families and friends and dumb gossip and games they played and total bullshit in which they believed wholeheartedly

they all argued about the nature of the world, and of themselves

they all sang songs

they all drew pictures

they all buried their dead in graves, and they buried their dead in graves well before they did a lot of that other stuff. they buried their dead with flowers, with panther claws, with the bones of animals they’d killed, with the bones of family members who had died at the same time or earlier. they buried their dead with their arms folded across their chests

they fell in love

they took care of their old and their sick and their disabled, even when it cost them

they made new things, and worried about what the new things meant for people everywhere, as a whole

Oh I like him he looks like he would appreciate my jokes

This dude would have great stories at a get-together and would bring some really great homemade dip. 

I feel like he really digs Lo-Fi Music

This guy was sculpted by Alfons and Adrie Kennis, and their Neanderthal reconstructions are all delightful. 

I love the kid in the last picture a lot- they look like a kid, just a little kid who’s done some mischief and is trying not to laugh about it.

I also adore their Lucy- they’ve struck a wonderful balance between the falling angel and the rising ape.

And their Turkana boy- there’s something precious and wistful in those eyes. 

But my favorite has got to be their reconstruction of H. floresiensis.

Just look at her. That’s a face of someone who’s lived and seen a lot, but also a face that’s known love and joy and laughter. That’s a face with a soul. 

They are all beautiful

What an amazing work, Kennis & Kennis!